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BLANQIgirls Pregnancy Bodystyler Review…

I think most mamas experience that perfect season of pregnancy… belly bumps are cute & round, clothes still fit, and faces glow to high heaven. This is also the time when we feel beautiful and powerful and photo-worthy. And for the most part, we’re not uncomfortable.
I guess the twins decided to skip that season for me. I’ve been pretty large & in charge the whole time. Clothes are my nemesis. I’m thankful to wear scrubs to work. My face has not glowed. Instead, it has paled to a ghostly shade and showcased some dark eye circles, thanks to my low iron and poor sleep. I do not feel beautiful and powerful and photo-worthy, and I’m certainly not comfortable. I spend hours digging two pairs of feet out from under my ribs, and I use my arms as a cradle to physically carry my aching belly around.
One product has single-handedly saved the day when it comes to most of the aforementioned issues… the bodystyler by BLANQIgirls.
Read about all of its wonderful features here:

About halfway through this pregnancy, I was hurtin’ for some type of belly support. After traipsing through several baby stores, though, I became skeptical. Most of the options looked like the gear construction workers wear. How was I supposed to fit belts with straps under my clothes? And don’t even get me started on that cradle thing that threads through your crotch like a jock strap. I was not interested in buying several of these contraptions, only to be disappointed that they didn’t offer the support I needed.
When a friend suggested I check out BLANQI on Twitter, I became intrigued. This looked like it could be a great option for me. A supportive tank that lifts and smooths? A stretchy undergarment that would last through my entire pregnancy and beyond? A longer, belly & bum-covering option for the clothes I was quickly outgrowing? Sign me up!!
BLANQIgirls was kind enough to send me a bodystyler to review. What a small world… Valerie actually came to my area to visit family, and she was able to meet up with Chris for the hand-off!
I put it on and fell head-over-heels. I have not gone a work-shift without it since! My belly is noticeably lighter & less sore, and I don’t have to constantly adjust my clothes to keep things appropriately covered. I am so impressed. I highly recommend! Check out BLANQI on Facebook & Twitter.
When BLANQI asked me to do a video review of their product, I was all too excited to share about the love affair I’ve developed with this magic tank top. That being said, this is my first video review. Yikes! I know I sound cheesy, but I promise I’m not reading off of cue cards or anything. My faithful old Macbook couldn’t keep up with my mouth, so I had to leave it out of the shot. And of course, I normally wear clothes over the bodystyler. Just tryin’ to show what it looks like! Anyway, here goes!

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cloth diaper tutorial update

Almost a year ago, I posted a Kincaid family cloth diaper tutorial. We were only months into it at the time, and I was neck-deep. I dabbled in a little bit of everything, as I didn’t want to miss anything that might make it easier or cheaper or more fun. Since then, I’ve had lots of people ask me what we’re doing diaper-wise on a regular basis. I wanted to update you, so here it is!

We’ve simplified significantly. I was all about the giveaways & random internet deals back then, and I don’t regret it. We tried literally EVERYTHING: all-in-ones, all-in-two’s, pockets, fitteds, prefolds, & flats. [Note: to learn about the different types, refer back to my tutorial post]. We honestly didn’t find a diaper we didn’t like. I will say Blueberry & Fuzzibunz did not fit Ames well, as he is small-for-age & had pretty skinny legs up until recently. At around seven months, we pared down our stash and sold off a bunch of fluff – cloth has excellent resale value!
We still use a few random diapers of old in our current stash. For example, Ames sleeps through the night in a bumGenius 3.0, stuffed with two microfiber inserts. I must say this is the stinkiest part of our system, and we’re probably eliminating it soon. We’re also keeping the few AppleCheeksSoftbums we have. They’re soft & easy, and Lucas is proficient with them. After battling ammonia issues, though, we’ve settled on a simpler diaper system & a simpler wash routine. Natural fibers + Tide detergent = success!
Here’s what we’re currently doing with Ames’ bum:
PREFOLDS
FLATS (I don’t like ’em; Chris is a folding wizard)
SNAPPIS (to fasten the prefolds/flats)

FITTEDS

COVERS (wool & PUL)

DIAPER SPRAYER

WETBAGS
 Here are some of my favorite brands:
There you have it! 
Hope this encourages some of you to consider the fluffy life!

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spoiling twin girls…

Last pregnancy, I prided myself on being thrifty when it came to baby gear. Regardless of the fact that we’re always on a tight budget, I love a good deal. I enjoy consignment shopping. My favorite part is digging through bargain bins and finding treasures that someone else overlooked. I feel powerful after stumbling upon a barely-used piece of gear. What can I say, I wanna stick it to the man! 
Quick rundown of expenditures for Ames:
Furniture – My parents gave us my old crib & dresser for his nursery. A friend lent us a moses basket with a cradle rocker for the newborn stage. So his sleeping arrangements were free.
Diapering – Bought from Craigslist, DiaperSwappers, & LiveJournal. I  think I spent around $500 total. It’s possible to diaper from birth to potty-training for $100, but I liked shopping for cute ones.
Food – Breastmilk is free, but it certainly is hard work!
CarseatChicco KeyFit for free from CharlotteMommies. I spent $75 on a new cover & accessories.
Stroller/Transportation – Didn’t use a stroller at first. We scored a Chicco umbrella stroller on sale this summer for $40. If you’re into babywearing, you’ll be proud of the deals I landed. We got a Maya ring sling (worth $66) for $15 at a YMCA rummage sale, a used BabyHawk (worth $80) for $40 from another mama. We found several other pouch slings from consignment shops and received a Moby Wrap as a gift.
We didn’t drop a thousands of dollars on beautiful cribs and strollers that drive themselves, though I would have loved to have those! It really isn’t hard to save money when getting ready for a baby. All it takes is a sense of thrift, some discipline, & a little elbow grease. Oh, and it helps to be internet-savvy! I’ve become proficient at sites like BabyHalfOff and forums where moms post “In-Search-Of” & “I Have to Offer” lists.
That being said, the impending birth of an opposite gender + DOUBLE THE BABY makes for a very wishful mama. Here’s what I have my eye on this time around. I feel overly-indulgent for even window shopping, but I can’t help it! I even started a list of drool-worthy items on Wishpot.
Furniture – Chris & I recently fell in love with these mini-cribs by Da Vinci. They even convert to twin beds, so the girls will be set for years to come!
Diapering – In a world of tacky & shoddy diaper bags, my green Puma bowling bag has been faithful.
That being said, I’ve always wanted a Petunia Picklebottom Boxy Backpack.
My favorite print is “Afternoon in Aberdeen.”
Food – My Medela Pump-in-Style’s motor gave out right at the end of Ames’ nursing career. It had already been through two of my friend’s kids, though. I’m impressed! I’d love this Medela Freestyle pump for the twins. Lord knows I’m gonna need a good workhorse of a machine!
Stroller – I get dizzy just thinking about pushing three kids around! Thank goodness for the big boys. They’re so stinkin’ helpful. We’re in need of a double stroller that seats two older babies, but with the double infant-seat option. That way, we wear one twin and put the other one + Ames in the stroller. Or Ames can go one of us, and the twins will ride in the stroller. Some even have an accessory for a third seat. Lastly, I need it to collapse easily and quickly. Are you dizzy now? There aren’t a whole lot of options out there, but I’ve heard raving twin-mom reviews about Mountain Buggy & ValcoBaby.
This Mountain Buggy is on sale right now for several hundred dollars off – definitely tempting! A third kid can ride on the back with a Kiddie Board accessory.
This ValcoBaby actually allows for FOUR kids to ride. In addition to the somewhat creepy and totally awesome toddler jump seat, another toddler can stand on the back.
I’m a little apprehensive about the side-by-side double strollers. I like the ones that maintain the width of a single. We’ll probably end up getting this Chicco Cortina Together, because it’s more reasonably priced. And our infant seats click in without any attachments! Easy-breezy!
Regardless, I don’t think we’ll buy one until the twins arrive. That way, we can get an idea of exactly what we want & need. I have a feeling there aren’t going to be a lot of trips out of the house with just one parent! Chris said not to worry about him. Apparently, his plan is to hit up the grocery store wearing one twin, with the other twin on Lucas, & Ames in the cart. Oh, the mental pictures!
It is fun to daydream about buying all of this gear! For now, though, I’ll keep scouring the internet for cloth diaper & babywearing deals. The rest of the stuff we’ll just figure out as we go along…
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steppin’ out Saturday…

We headed out for sushi last night…surprise, surprise.
Upon returning home, we snapped a few photos for
Rachael:
Cardigan, Ross
Tshirt, Liz Lange Maternity
Nightgown, clothing swap
Leggings, Forever 21
Scarf, Gift from a friend
Cowboy boots, Durango
Christopher:
T-shirt, Lucky Brand
Hoodie, American Apparel
Jeans, Lucky Brand
Shoes, Vans
Beanie, Urban Outfitters
Scarf, Boutique in Asheville NC
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ahava zipporah giveaway!! CLOSED

I recently stumbled upon a high school friend’s business venture. Zipporah Camille is a North Carolina artist who specializes in all sorts of fiber art & jewelry. Her pieces are fantastic – intricate & unique. 

If you’re into recycled goodies, check out Ahava Nest Vintage. She finds the old and makes it new. How cute is this brooch?!
If you’d rather shop for handmade one-of-a-kind jewelry & gifts, head over to Ahava Zipporah Lovebird Studio. There, you’ll find page after page of funky, bohemian, & whimsical trinkets. Check out these darling earrings, and don’t even get me started on the Moroccan-inspired hand-painted dish (she’s thrifty & green – it’s recycled glass).
I love supporting small businesses, and local is even better!
I was impressed by her affordable prices, considering she does everything by hand. Her personal customer service and excellent communication make for smooth business transactions, too. Needless to say, I’m honored to have her sponsor a giveaway here at Letters to Ames.
One of you is going to receive a pair of Ahava Zipporah feather earrings!

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steppin’ out Saturday…

Last night we went to a birthday party… Ames had his first sleepover ever, with Chief & Sunshine!
We had to snap a few pics before we left the house,
Rachael: 
Top – Rocha John Rocha (clothing swap)
Jeans – Lucky Brand
Heels – Madden Girl (Ross)
Christopher:
Cap – Penguin (TJ Maxx)
Shirts – Lucky Brand
Blazer – Lucky Brand
Jeans – Lucky Brand
Sneakers – Vans
Ames:
Pajamas – Gymboree (consignment)
Toboggan/Beanie – Target
Amber Necklace – Miss Monkey’s Boutique
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Padalily Giveaway! CLOSED

Let’s face it – a lot of baby gear out there doesn’t make sense. Some of the “must-have” items are actually bulky, expensive, & uncomfortable. The travel system? Give me a break! I encourage every pregnant woman I know to plan on baby-wearing until their child reaches the umbrella stroller stage. That’s what we did and saved so much hassle & money! No bumping the awkward gigantic stroller into racks in stores. No searching out the elevators or moving chairs out of the way at restaurants to get a tiny 8lb baby’s belongings out of others’ way.
Let me get off my soapbox to say that the infant bucket seat is pretty inevitable. It’s easy to snap in to the base of a car. It’s convenient for transport in restaurants and other establishments, when one wants to leave baby right where they are – comfy, cozy, & hopefully snoozing! 
Our one year-old tot is still in his infant seat, rear-facing because he’s on the small side. He’s too heavy to lug around in the seat on a regular basis, though. Let’s be honest – after about 10lbs, those seats become quite the hassle! There isn’t a super efficient or ergonomic way to carry that thing, and we are forced to bear the weight on our forearms…right in our tender elbow-pits! So what’s a parent to do?
Enter, Padalily!
This North Carolina-based company boasts a mom-invented plush wrap for carseat handles. It uses Velcro to attach around the handle, making for a much more comfortable carry. It’s available in several prints, and all of them are reversible – how stylish?! And let’s hear it for Carolina companies!
Christopher is almost always responsible for carrying the infant seat, but there are times I have to lug the thing around on my own. Padalily sent us a cute wrap review… it is called, “Rocker Chic.” One side has guitar lingo on it, and the other side is cute prints of rock stars. Definitely perfect for our musically-inclined family!
When using the Padalily, I notice a definite difference. No more cramps in my arms, and I can carry my boy around in his seat for a lot longer without getting tired!
One of YOU is going to win a Padalily of your very own!
In fact, I even know what it’ll look like. Cute, right?!

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