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tofu & seaweed? they’ll like it, i promise

I wonder if when she shared this recipe with me in college, she knew she was changing my life forever. Jenn is part-Korean and prepared this meal quite often when we lived together. She was nice enough to let me try it one night, and even nicer to teach it to me a few months later. Bless you, Jenn. Bless you.

Behold, the yummiest + easiest + cheapest way to feed a large family:

What you need:
Tofu. My family eats three packages’ worth in one meal.
Rice. Get fancy with the sticky stuff, or use whatever you already have.
Sauce. Soy, teriyaki, stir-fry… the sky’s the limit.
Seaweed paper. I prefer to buy in bulk, but groceries stock it.

What you do: 
Remember, this recipe is all about the options!
Dry & cut the tofu. Sometimes, I press it between two cutting boards, and sometimes I bake it for an hour at a low temp. Sometimes, I do none of the above and cook it sopping it wet. Drier = more firm when cooked. After drying, Sometimes, I leave it in longer strips. Usually, I cut it into bite-sized squares. If I’m baking it, I cut it up first thing.
Cook the tofu. Grease up a pan and fry it in rice wine or soy sauce or any kind of oil. You can also bake it for thirty minutes at 375. You’ll need to keep it moving, either by flipping it in the pan or turning it over halfway through its oven adventure. I typically use a minimal amount of flavorful sauce (teriyaki, etc) during this part, to keep things bland for the younger kids.
Cook the rice. You can do it.

To serve:
Throw the tofu and rice in separate bowls, and serve the tofu onto a bed of rice. Hand out the seaweed paper. Put the sauces on table, so everyone can make their own concoction. Chris & I place a piece of tofu and a scoop of rice in a piece of seaweed paper, and then eat. The boys like to eat their seaweed separately. The sisters just shove fistfuls tofu in their mouths until we stop serving them. Whatever works!

Although the Monsanto drama has scared us off of soy milk, we seriously eat this dish once a week. I serve it with green beans or a broccoli stir fry, depending on what we have on hand. Each of my kids eats it a different way, but everyone loves it all the same. Cheers!

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the garlic shake

Several of you asked about the details of my garlic photo on Instagram this week. Exciting, but a bit ridiculous…right? A way to peel garlic without making a mess or a stink simply seems too good to be true. Not thanks to Martha Stewart, after her participation on NPR’s “Wait, Wait, Don’t Tell Me” last week. I sat in my car at Trader Joe’s for longer than I should have, just to hear this one out. Boy, was it worth it! It really works, y’all. Here we go:

1. Place an entire head of garlic in a metal bowl.
2. Top with another metal bowl, preferably the same size.
3. Shake shake shake, for about a minute.
4. Remove “bowl lid” and voila! Beautifully naked cloves of garlic.

Now go try it, and let me know if it works as well for you as it did for me.
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attack of the toys

I don’t know what it is about babies & toys. They don’t ask for them, they certainly don’t need them, they rarely play with them, and yet they are forever receiving them. Older kids go through toys as quickly as they do clean underwear. Something is forever breaking or no longer trendy, causing a constant desire to acquire more.
In our house, each child is expected to keep their toys in their own rooms. This helps the older ones establish what they really want to keep versus what simply takes up space. They didn’t mind holding onto every single fast food toy & NERF dart when they had a separate playroom. But now, space is precious. We have five kids in the house. The big boys have eliminated toys they no longer play with, and they proudly trade in their toys for ice cream at ChickFilA.
As for the younger ones, I’ve stumbled upon a miracle toy solution. I keep most of my toddler’s toys in his closet, rotating out a few each week. The kid never grows bored. Having only one or two to choose from keeps him from being over-stimulated, and he’s able to actually concentrate on one activity for an extended period of time.
Sometimes, he catches a glimpse of his secret stash while I’m dressing him. He squeals with delight and makes a beeline for the closet, pulling out one or two. I let him play for a few minutes, and then I say “all done” and clean up. He’s perfectly happy to leave that collection in exchange for the one or two items that await him downstairs.
Running a tight toy ship has saved us lots of money while teaching the kids responsibility and prudence. They have learned to appreciate and take better care of what they have. And in the meantime, we’re not tripping over toys with each step. Our house still allows for peace & order for everyone. Hallelujah!
 
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the sisters’ nursery tour

When it comes to decorating, Chris & I aren’t too into themes. We like what we like, and we want our home to show character & personality. Generally, we try to collect pieces along the way and create fun spaces slowly but surely. In addition to making the process more fun, it also saves us money and the pressure of sticking to one idea or pattern.
Decorating the sisters’ room has been no exception. The only new items purchased were the curtains and shelving! Everything else came from our garage, friends, and family. We wanted to create a fragile & feminine space, one with an almost old-lady feel to it. We love the way it turned out, and we look forward to many sweet moments in here with the girls!

I made the fabric piece several years ago. I’m not the craftiest gal in the land, and Chris has never been too fond of it. So, where shall it go in the new house? How about in the girls’ room, behind the door?! The mirror has followed me from apartments to houses over the years. Swaddling blankets & a maya wrap ring sling hang beneath it.
The girls will enjoy gazing upon black & white photos of their big brothers. Above it hangs my favorite photograph of Chris & I, a copy of which is also in Ames’ room. The heirloom rocking chair belongs to my mother. It was crafted for short mamas like us.

The cribs are a combination of hand-me-downs & Craigslist finds. I picked up the chandelier at Urban Outfitters for five bucks, almost ten years ago. It sat in a box until now. A sweet friend created the mixed-media piece as a wedding gift for the husband & I.

Chris brought home the patterned wall-hanging during his days at Lucky Brand Jeans, and the pseudo-curtain was a late-night apartment project for my college roommates & I.

This wall is a hodge-podge of diapering supplies & family knick-knacks. The dresser came from a friend, and the hamper used to be ours. We’re currently throwing our dirty clothes in a pile in our closet, all in the name of nursery-style!

The barn stars were made by a family friend, and the blue sweater was knitted in honor of my birth by a distant aunt over twenty years ago. “Always Love” is one of our favorite Nada Surf songs, and it’s been sung to each of our boys countless times. I found the artwork on clearance at West Elm. Chris & I couldn’t agree upon what the girl is holding. I know it’s probably a popsicle, but I’m secretly hoping it’s a corn dog.
And there you have it! It’s hard to believe this room will be put to use in mere days. C’mon, sisters Kincaid! Your Momma & Daddy are ready for you!



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more kids, less footprints

Upon meeting my husband, my idea of the fairy-tale family flew out the window. He already had two boys from a previous marriage – something I’d not considered as a teenager, doodling wedding dresses and future children’s names.
However, I quickly fell in love with Lucas & Avery, and I made them mine. I also looked forward to kids of my own. We were pregnant two months after getting married. And then again, when our son turned nine months old. The sisters will bring our total to five children, ages eleven & under.
While it’s enough to make our heads spin, we’re not exactly breaking the bank. I have to smile when I hear parents complain about baby expenses. When it comes down to it, babies really only need the basics. We choose to cloth diaper, breastfeed, make our own baby food, and buy clothes & gear on consignment.
With household expenses, we’ve incorporated green habits into our lifestyle. We buy cloth napkins at thrift stores. They reside in a basket on our dining table – a colorful centerpiece & a fun way to remind the kids to use manners. For kitchen clean-ups, we use flour sacks and dish rags in place of paper towels. Instead of several different cleaning products, we usually grab the vinegar. White distilled cleans glass like a charm, and the apple cider clears up diaper rashes. We cook with both kinds, too!
I’ve discovered two great benefits of going crunchy in our house:
Saves money. I don’t feel guilty when I buy baby clothes at consignment stores or on clearance. Ames might only wear an outfit once before outgrowing it, but it cost me two bucks! In addition, I shop more frequently without spending more. Retail therapy with a twist! It’s fun to pop in somewhere and pick up a special item for one of the kids. Also, we’ve virtually eliminated miscellaneous trips to big box stores. No more “paper towel runs” resulting in hundreds of dollars spent on who-knows-what. 
Gets the kids involved. I’m convinced our lifestyle keeps our boys well-behaved. They don’t whine about toys at stores. We don’t have to bribe them to go shopping. Our trips are intentional, well-organized, and almost always fun for the whole family. What kid doesn’t want to dig through a pile of old books at Goodwill? It’s like a treasure hunt! And because our cleaning habits are non-toxic, each child is responsible for helping with household cleaning. Arm an eight-year old with a spray bottle of vinegar & water, and you’ll have a sparkling bathroom in ten minutes flat. Just remind him the walls don’t need cleaning…or do they?
While we care about the environment and do our best to treat it nicely, Chris & I have been pleasantly surprised with the added bonuses that accompany a green family lifestyle. There’s no going back now. Crunch!
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table talk

After learning about the sisters, Chris & I took some time to focus on making our house work for a family of seven. We decorated our bedroom, bought new furniture for the den, broke down the boys’ bunk beds to give them their own bedroom spaces, & decided to go bigger in the kitchen – we needed a table that would comfortably seat all of us.
All of the tables I liked were simple with straight lines, yet they all ran at least $500. I emailed a few pictures to my grandfather (a former engineer & virtual know-it-all), asking him how hard he thought it would be to build one ourselves. Papa took things into his own hands. This 84 year-old man, after whom we named our son, built us a dining room table. He brought it down this weekend, when he & my Nina came to visit from Asheville, NC.
It’s somewhere between six & seven feet long, made of cedar & steel.
My brother & dad helped bring it and set it up.
Papa placed a dedication plaque on the underside of the table. 
The sisters’ names are to be announced…
Chris is building a bench for one side, and chairs will go on the other.
Of course, highchairs will be sprinkled in for the next several years!
This is how we decided to set it up in our dining space.
But the table fun didn’t stop there. On Monday morning, Papa showed up on our doorstep around 8am. He & Chris went to the hardware store and had this to show for it, several hours later…
Side note: notice Papa’s trailer, on the right side of the photo? It’s actually the front axle from his dad’s 1930’s Model-T Ford. Amazing!
We have a picnic table! There’s even a hole in the middle for an umbrella. It’s perfect for our back patio! Just in time for spring, too. We’ve already enjoyed several meals at it. 
Glorious. And just for memory’s sake, the schematics to the project are forever in plain view in our den.
THANKS FOR THE LEGACY, 
KENNETH AMES MAULTSBY, SR.

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preggo products…

Just want to share my love for a few things that the sisters have enjoyed during this pregnancy…
HAPPY 33 WEEKS!
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WATER. Some people love it. They can’t get enough. I’m not like that. I have to remind myself to drink it (lots of it), and I’m picky about the containers from which I drink. I like ice-cold water, and I don’t want to taste the bottle/cup while I’m enjoying the beverage.

I’ve recently fallen in love with the lifefactory bottle, which I picked up at Miss Monkey’s sale. It holds 20oz of the good stuff, it’s glass/BPA-free, it’s pretty, and it’s dishwasher-safe. I picked white so I’d refrain from sharing with all of the messy/dirty boys in my house. This is Momma’s special water bottle! They have a baby/kid collection, too. I swooned when I saw all of the colors online!
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SNAPPLE PEACH TEA. Speaking of fluid intake, I prefer something with a little more flavor. Like any respectable Southern girl, I love a good glass of sweet tea. My husband makes it to perfection.

Only recently have I started craving this peach stuff. I have no idea why I like it, and I know it’s probably full of sugar and other things I don’t need. But it says “all natural” on the bottle – that’s gotta count for something, right?!

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BLOOD BUILDER. This pregnancy has really taken a toll on my iron/hemoglobin. I’d already added Floradix early on. During one lab draw last month, though, my HgB read three points under the minimum acceptable level.

My doctor mentioned “doing something about it” if it didn’t come up, motioning as if to give me a shot in my leg. No, thank you!! I got together with my midwife, and she recommended this supplement. My hemoglobin has risen almost two points since!
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CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM. My relationship with ice cream seems to go in phases. We hadn’t kept it in the house for awhile, even at the beginning of this pregnancy. But for the last few months, it’s been really hard to get all of my calories in. I have a decreased appetite, and I feel full after only a few bites of a meal. My poor stomach is running out of room.
Chris has started scooping me a bowl of ice cream every night before bed. We try to buy the healthier kinds, but when it comes down to it… I need the fat/protein/carbs. Even my multiples book recommends ice cream as a daily snack. I’m not complaining!


…JUST TO NAME A FEW.
cheers!

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