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Tiny Prints giveaway winner!!

Congratulations, Brianne!
Comment #15 won the $50 gift card to Tiny Prints!
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Brianne said…

:] Tiny Prints has such a great selection! Every year we send out a photo card and I think this year we may go with them! I believe my favorite Christmas design would have to be the simple Extended Holiday one!

November 5, 2010 5:17 AM  Please email me with your contact info in the next 48hours! letterstoames@gmail.comStick around, friends. Another giveaway is comin’ up soon!
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Tiny Prints giveaway! CLOSED

When I was first contacted to do a Christmas card giveaway for Tiny Prints, I was a bit skeptical.
I’ve got a creative husband & several graphic designer friends, one of whom is a stationary genius.
I definitely didn’t want to review a card and promote a giveaway for a cheesy product!

However, I must say I was impressed with the selection when I got to the Tiny Prints website!
They offer several categories, ranging from Christmas to New Years to general holiday cards.
Under those categories, there are even more options for themes and styles.
You even have the option of searching by color theme – huge plus!

I had a hard time choosing, but I eventually settled on this fun vintage card:

front:
back:
Chris wanted the pictures to be bordered… Tiny Prints offers straight-forward templates.
You simply fill in the boxes with your own pictures and text.
Maybe not the most sophisticated system, but definitely user-friendly!
I also wish the picture/text on the back was moveable,
so that I could throw it in a corner and create more writing space for notes.
However, I’m just stoked that the card came with an option for a developed back!
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welcome home, avery.

Christopher Avery has always been special.
His heart is more pure, his abandon more reckless.
He is unlike any child I’ve ever met.
Avery has never talked back. He has never had a bad attitude.
He has never met a single person with whom he could not get along.
Not a day goes by when Avery doesn’t ask, “Can I help with anything?”
It was for HIS sake that we pulled him out of school.
He struggles with transitions. He struggles with impulsivity.
It had become disruptive in the classroom. And the system failed him. They stopped giving him “motor breaks” in the special needs room with play equipment. Every idea & behavior plan we came up with fizzled after weeks.
They kept pushing us to medicate him, which was simply not an option. We allowed him to be evaluated by pediatricians, behavioral psychiatrists, & school psychologists. But until his behavior affects his academics, he’ll not be labeled as ADHD in this household.
We removed him to protect him. That is our job, as parents.
And though we are a bit nervous, we feel confident.
God gives us everything we need when we need it, right?
And right now, this is a season to protect our son.
He is like a baby plant. We will feed him, water him, and watch him grow.
As far as curriculum goes, we were overwhelmed at first.
Of course, I dove headfirst into research.
Avery is a quick learner. He is ahead of his grade level in most subjects.
That may have been part of his problem. Boredom. So we’re going hands-on.
We decided to go with a unit studies plan. He will learn in themes. 
Every subject will relate back to the theme, and the units can last weeks or months.
For (a very simple) example – teddy bears.
Learn about factories that make teddy bears. Read books like Corduroy.
Count groups of teddy bears. Make your own teddy bear. Get it?
We’ve selected Konos – Volume 1.
There are character traits as themes. We’ll start with “Attentiveness.”
For science, we’ll focus on the senses and how you use them to pay attention. 
For literature, we’ll read books about paying attention and characters who do/do not.
He’ll write stories & do crafts related to the theme, and there are even music lessons. We supplement math & grammar to beef things up.
Chris is excited. As a musician, it’s hard for him to keep a daily schedule.
He’s an artist! If he hears an idea in his head, he has to track it! It will not wait!
This work-at-home-dad just got a bit more busy…
We will test-drive it this semester and most likely continue through the school year.
Our goal is for Avery to be re-integrated into our neighborhood school.
His older brother Lucas is thriving in the gifted & talented program there.
But until then, Avery is officially a homeschool kid.
Now, there will be more structure in our house.
Quality time will be more intentional.
Field trips will be had. Memories will be made.
Bring it on.

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if it grew on trees…

My men in their monkey suits… Cute, right?!
Just a little birthday costume preview. Can’t believe Ames is one next week!

I have to admit, I’ve been feeling pretty down in the dumps lately. I’ve been feeling a lot of things… tired, worn down, sickly, overwhelmed, yikes! I’m a bit discouraged about where our family is versus where I’d like to take it.

I am content in the idea of Chris playing music full-time, but I pray for breakthrough daily. I want him to be fully appreciated (and compensated) for his gifts & talents. I hope that I’ll get to spend more time at home with my kids before they get old enough to remember. Until I am able to work part-time or not at all, though, I will continue to be the provider. And that’s okay.

In the meantime, I’ve decided to make a visual wish-list of things I’d buy if money really did grow on trees.

This is about…10 years in the making. I already have a tattoo by him inside my lower lip that says “HONOR,” but I will get tattooed again for REAL, by Chris Stuart, before I die. A big ol’ pigeon piece on my calf. And when I’m 90 years old and dragging behind a walker, I will show it off proudly – beneath my support hose. The inspiration comes from a dove obsession Christopher & I have… Here is a little idea from our wedding invitations.

I’ve always wanted a nice handbag. Maybe someday, I’ll get lucky like Mandy and win a Balenciaga?! One day, I might just reward myself regardless. And when I do, I’ll most likely buy a Cole Haan.

This is a Taylor 314, one of the nicest guitars EVER. It’s been on Christopher’s wish-list for years. In fact, he jokingly tried to figure out a way to add it to our wedding registry. He also tells people it’s what our soon-to-be toddler wants for his first birthday. Bless his heart.

Also on my list are two things for the house…
A privacy fence! Bamboo floors!
And our bedroom would look like a mixture of all of this glory…
Lots of colors, textures, & layers – can I get an amen?

We will get there someday. I squeal at the thought of how far we’ve come in the last two years! And who knows…maybe by the time we “make it,” we won’t even want this stuff anymore. 
I’m just trying to take each day at a time. I’m keeping my head up and doing what it takes to feed my family. I’m proud to be an artist’s wife. I’m proud to be a nurse. I love what I do, both at home and at work. I’m thankful that a full-time job for me only means three days a week. And my husband is home to take care of the house and the kids while I’m gone. I mean, talk about an ideal set-up!
I just can’t wait to see where God takes us in the seasons to come. I know one thing…I plan on waltzing into one of those seasons with a Cole Haan swinging from my arm!
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Parenting in Public, 24/7…

Ames, your older brothers are getting really big. Lucas is 10, and Avery is almost 8! Here they are a couple of months ago, hanging with you in your room.

I can’t believe how fast time flies. It feels like only yesterday that I taught Lucas how to tie his shoes. I started dating your papa when Lucas was 4 and Avery was 2. Now Lucas is in the Gifted & Talented program at his school, working on things I feel like I learned in college. Avery’s lost his baby chub face and is climbing to the tops of trees in five seconds flat.

Chris & I have dreamt and planned to one day own a house together. We want nothing more than to give you a stable place in which to grow up and call home. The day has come! We’re finally at a point where we can buy a house, one big enough to fit all of you boys!
Can you believe it? You can see your room from these pictures – top right. So exciting. And to think, this whole thing came about in just a few months. Our lease was almost up and we wanted to stay in the area, in order for the older boys to stay at their school. We drove around and found a new neighborhood, with big ole’ houses in our price range! The house has taken a total of two months to build – good grief! We’re supposed to close at the end of next week. I’m giddy. We were out of our rental home a few months before the new house was ready, though. My parents, your Chief & Sunshine, were kind enough to let us stay with them. 2 adults, 3 boys, and 2 dogs have set up camp at their house, living out of suitcases and laying cloth diapers out to dry on their back deck. They are so precious to let us invade every nook and cranny of their lives like this. We are eternally grateful! Which brings me to my point… I think living with adults has made me a better parent, if for no other reason than I’m being watched by other parents. Parenting under surveillance. Huh? Let me explain.
Most parents do their best to appear experienced and relaxed in public with their kids. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched a screaming kid quiet down in a restaurant after getting the shoulder pinch, while his mother smiles innocently at other diners.  Then there’s the kid who gets dragged back under the dressing room door after trying to escape, but his mama says, “Sweetheart, don’t you wanna try on these pants?” in a honey-sweet voice.
Your home is your sacred space, and the place we parents feel most comfortable. Our kids can run around with dirty faces after dinner, screaming at the top of their lungs and leaving a trail of toys behind them. In my house, they usually clean their faces and rooms before bed. But sometimes they don’t. And I don’t lose sleep over it either way. But what if you’re living with another set of parents? A set that raised you, no less? A-W-K-W-A-R-D! It was all my fault, but I started out living life at Chief & Sunshine’s as if I was up for some award or something – or worse, like I was in danger of losing my job and someone had come to evaluate me. Every time you’d grunt and groan, I’d want to change your diaper. Heaven forbid they smell something! Every time you’d fidget and fuss, I’d want to pick you up and quiet you. What if my parents heard? And don’t even get me started on the older boys… Those miniature hurricanes aged me 20 years when we moved in with Chief & Sunshine.

But then my dad intervened. The man I called “Scary Gary” throughout my teenage years asked me to get coffee with him one afternoon, a few weeks after we’d moved in. He told me that he and my mom had opened their home to us on their own accord. They knew that we must have dirty laundry (both literal and figurative), and still they wanted us to stay with them. He told me how impressed he and my mom are with my ability to balance so much – full-time job, breastfeeding relationship with an infant, two stepsons, and homebuilding process, all within my first year and a half of marriage. He told me to lighten up. He said, “I’ll let you know if something’s out of line. Stop walking on eggshells. I’m not that scary.”

I loved it. I breathed a huge sigh of relief and went home to my sometimes-smelly and always-loud family of boys with a new perspective and boatload of patience. Don’t get me wrong – I still check your diaper too frequently and put my finger over my lips to signal “QUIET!!!” to the boys several times a day. But I know that I’ve got a set of parents who watch what I do without judgment. They are proud of me. I’m not perfect, Ames. You’ve already discovered this. But I’m doing the best I can, and I hope to make you proud, too.
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Our journey into cloth diapering!

Your bum is a hot topic, Ames!
We decided early on in the pregnancy to cloth diaper you, and it has been so much fun. Needless to say, we’ve had quite a few questions (plus an “eww” or two) from well-meaning friends and family along the way.
Last night, I sat down to write my friend Jessi an email about our diapering system. She’s interested in making the switch from paper (disposables).
I figured I might as well post a version here, too, for all of those who are interested in how we handle your hind end!
MY CLOTH DIAPER TUTORIAL:

There are two main categories of cloth diapers, and each with two subcategories… dizzy yet?

DIAPERS THAT NEED A COVER:


Prefolds – This is the old-school famous cloth diaper that is wrapped, pinned and covered. It’s the best solution for parents who diaper mainly for economical reasons. These run anywhere from $1-$5 a piece. They usually come in dozens, and they’re made of either Chinese or Indian cotton (bleached or unbleached). They must be washed several times before use to prep them, in order to increase the absorbency.

 
Fitteds – These diapers go on like disposables, and then they’re followed by a cover. They are either sized, meaning the baby will outgrow them, or one-sized, with snaps that enlarge the diaper as the baby grows. A one-sized diaper can last from newborn stage to potty-training, so it’ll be more expensive. These diapers range from $10-$30 a piece.

DIAPERS THAT DO NOT NEED A COVER:

Pockets – These look like covers, with slits in them – these are called pockets. An insert, made of terrycloth or hemp (or a number of other fibers) goes in the pocket. People sometimes use prefolds to stuff them, too, for nighttime or heavier wetters. When the baby soils the diaper, the insert should be removed and the whole thing goes in the wash. These also come either sized or one-sized. They range in price from $12-$25. Notice the outside is waterproof, so it can go cover-less:

All-In-Ones – This is the most simple (and usually expensive) cloth diapering system. Everything is sewn in, and it’s used just like a disposable. No inserts needed, but they can be added as “doublers.” When it’s dirty, the whole thing goes in the wash and a whole new one goes on. Once again, they come sized or one-sized. They range from $15-$30.

Chris & I have all sorts of diapers, because I tried to collect different types during my pregnancy. We’ve used all four types, but Chris has voiced a preference for certain ones… so I’m working on building a stash of two main brands. Not gonna argue with a papa who changes dipes!
Our favorites:
We use a lot of BumGenius All-In-Ones during the day.
Right now, we used the sized ones, which means we’ll have to buy
new ones in several months.
I have a few one-sized ones, though, and I’d love to get more.
We buy them used from DiaperSwappers and
new from CottonBabies when they’re on sale.
We use Goodmama fitted diapers with covers at night.
They are super cute, popular, bulky, absorbent, & expensive.
We buy them used from DiaperSwappers and from an online community.
Goodmamas are one-sized, so we’ll never have to go up.

Buying used might seem icky, but babies are only in diapers for so many months. It saves to get involved with other cloth-diapering mamas who are
interested in buying, selling, & trading.
Our personal system is pretty simple. We put dirty diapers in a pail liner that hangs on the door (it can also go in a trashcan). The smell is virtually nonexistent, but we keep a washcloth with lavender or peppermint oil in there just in case. We wash diapers every 2 or 3 days. We are not on solids yet…but those will just go into the toilet via the super-cool/dad-friendly diaper sprayer.
Anyway, back to the wash routine.
We put them in the washer with a bit of Seventh Generation powder detergent.
We also use Charlie’s Soap, which is made here in NC!
We set it on the hottest/longest wash cycle, usually with an extra rinse.
Then we put them in the dryer for the longest option, on the lowest heat.
Sometimes I turn the diaper’s pockets inside out or hang dry them, but that’s as fancy as it gets.

When we go out in public, I have a wetbag, made of fabric on the outside and waterproof PUL on the inside. I just put the soiled diaper in there, as well as the wipe (baby washcloth). When we’re out, we use a diaper spray on his bottom. At home, we use a small squirt bottle with water, apple cider vinegar, and tea tree/lavender oil. Knock on wood – not a diaper rash since we dealt with thrush @ 6 weeks!

That’s it! It may seem like a lot. It did take a bit of time to develop a rhythm,
but it was never too overwhelming. We’re 5 months in, and it feels so natural!
I cannot believe how much fun it’s made diapering.
It feels weird to say that, but it’s true!
It’s a team effort between Chris & I, and we both enjoy it.
It’s also saved us a lot of money.
I’m not sure how much we’ve spent, but I know it’s under $300.
Not bad, considering we could easily go through a box of disposables in a matter of days!
PHEW!!